BEHIND THE SCENES
Alfred P. Dizon
LA TRINIDAD, Benguet – A few days
before “Bong” went to see his Maker. I had this thought inside myself he was “agpakpakada.” This is the Ilocano term
for bidding farewell. I never had any inkling he would go, I told his immediate
family the night before his burial.
Before his passing, every time he saw me
tinkering or washing my vehicle, usually
on a Sunday, he always came for a chat and would ask for a copy of this
newspaper. At times, I was in a hurry, and maybe he sensed that. We would talk
while I was doing the ritual and when he saw that I was about to be finished,
he would say it was time for him to work.
His office was at their home fronting
our residence in Barangay Betag.It had always been that way since we were kids,
I mean, wherever we saw each other, we always paused for some talk.
I actually spent my childhood in
Sagada, Mountain Province, but every summer or Christmas break. I usually came
to La Trinidad. And I always looked for him. He was seven years my senior, but
I never addressed him manong or kuya. I always felt he was my “barkada” and he
never made a fuss out of it.
Those years in the 1960s, during
summer, he taught me how to make kites and we would fly these beside our houses
which had some sort of a “beach” as it was a swamp. There were only three
houses then in the area, theirs, ours and that of the Daquigans.
The houses were at the center of
vast vegetable fields which stretched from the provincial capitol to the municipal
hall. During rainy days, we hopped from stone to stone to reach our homes as
the water would reach ankle-deep. Later, businessman Jack Dulnuan bought the nearby
lot where his technological school now stands. Sofrom our house, the sunset
became just a memory.
In early 70s, our family built
another house in Brookspoint, Aurora Hill in Baguio City and that was where we
went during summer and Christmas breaks. It was when I was in second year
college that I returned to live in La Trinidad and I resumed my friendship with
Bong.
We would have endless nights with
the spirits and planned to set up a music magazine featuring hits at that time
when folksinging was the fad in Baguio City, 6 km away. I always learned a
thing or two about things or life from him during those talks. Every now and
then, we would meet but as the years went by, both of us got busier, and so the
meetings got rarer and rarer.
He was not your average architect but a
visionary and a dreamer aside from making blueprints and constructing houses. A
few years back, he talked about setting up a computer program that would stop
corruption in government. Along with his sons Lloyd and Nathaniel, they
pioneered the program, which was introduced to some government agencies, but
there were no talkers.
I told him, government officials
rejected their proposals to install the program in their offices for obvious
reasons.
Then last year, along with his sons,
he set up an environmental group promoting bamboo as an alternative to pine in
building houses, tables, chairs among other things. They called the groupBambourg. When he saw me
in another car-washing session, he approached me, showed me blueprints of
buildings made entirely of bamboo and asked if I could help in its
promotion.
I told him, if he wanted, he could devote
a column in this newspaper dealing on the environment like propagating the use
of bamboo to mitigate erosion. He agreed, but somehow, the Bamboo Maker up in
the sky beat me to it.
At his wake, many youngsters and old
folks recounted how they joined Bambourg.
Benguet Rep. Ronald Cosalan, who came to pay his respectspledged his support.
Perseveranda, his wife, said in her
eulogy that Bong had always been a good provider and always made sure his kids had hot sabaw (soup) during meals.
His brothers and sisters said he had always been a good kuya, very tolerant, being
the eldest among his siblings.
His mother Carlota agreed. They will
sorely miss Bong. I do too. Now I regret that our talks during my car-washing
rituals were short. Even in death, Bong has taught me that one should always
have time for family and friends. Time is short, he would often say. Now, I
understand what he meant.
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