Monday, August 12, 2013

Ailing dad seeks help for daughter’s future

By Ramon Dacawi  

BAGUIO CITY -- Forty-year old Joel Gal-od lies on his hospital bed, uncertainty etched on his face covered by a plastic mask connected to  a tube attached to the oxygen piping system at the fourth floor of the Baguio General Hospital and Medical Center. 

It’s afternoon of Tuesday, August 6, two days before he’d be wheeled again into the renal center of the other building of the BGHMC  for his hemodialysis treatment for kidney failure set every Thursday, Saturday and Monday, on the 7:00 a.m.-11 a.m. shift.

He has been on three-times-a-week dialysis since June, 2010, according to a social case study report prepared by social welfare officer Joy Hilario of the city social welfare and development office.  

A city councilor had been gracious to charge Joel’s  dialysis last Thursday to his local version of the Priority Development Assistance Fund. Unless Samaritans would come in, Joel would have nowhere else to turn to, or, to put it more bluntly, beg from for the treatment cost of P2,200 per session on Saturday, Aug. 10, and then on Aug. 12, 15, 17 and so on.

Even if one has the funds, it’s ordeal enough to sit through the four hours  per session needed to cleanse the blood with the help of a machine acting like kidneys filtering waste from the bloodstream. It’s multiple whammy for Joel who has been hospitalized since late July for complications.

Recently, the dialysis fistula inserted in his hand to allow attachment to the cleansing machine malfunctioned, prompting its temporary transfer to the neck. Joe was told he’d need some P40,000 for the re-insertion of the same in either the left or right hand, both of which had been calloused due to previous implantations. 

To sustain his dialysis treatment for life, he has lost his savings and properties, including the taxi unit he worked on to own driving other people’s units. Four years back, his wife went ot Canada to work. She never came back and eventually married a Canadian national. 

He later met a nursing student whose schooling he bankrolled.After passing the licensure examinations, she also left for good. 

When she learned he was hospitalized again, Lyka, his 11-year old adopted daughter, arrived with his widowed mother Josie last week-end from  Nueva Vizcaya. After he was diagnosed for kidney failure, Joel thought it best to have Lyka stay with her grandmother. 

The girl, who’s in the fifth grade at the Sta. Clara Elementary School in Aritao town,  however, also thought it best to skip school and be by her dad’s hospital bed.

Joel’s biggest worry  is  Lyka’s future should he be gone, a relative, Limay Adawi Carrera, said. On Joel’s request, Carrera had brought the girl to  the city social welfare and development office to inquire on possible adopors or sponsors for Lyka’s upkeep and education. 

“He also asked me to try to contact his former wife in Canada, for her to possibly agree to help provide for the kid’s future,” Limay said. 

For now, the most pressing concern is how to sustain Joel’s thrice-a-week hemodialysis sessions and his other medications, aside from payment of his hospital bills. 

For now, he’s confined at the fourth floor of the Flavier Building of the BGHMC  trying to figure out where to turn to for help, not only for his treatment but for Lyka’s future. 

Readers who can help may ring up his cellphone number (09482305389) or Limay’s (09484305985). 

Over in La Trinidad, Benguet, 19-year kidney patient old Dharren Gawili had his hemodialysis last Thursday morning, thanks to a businessman who footed the P2,600 bill at the Benguet Renal Center. 

Dharren is the second patient helped from a P3,000-per-week fund that the businessman said he will try to maintain, initially for residents of La Trinidad, Benguet where he is based. 

The first was Jocelyn Singson, a 40-year old barangay councilwoman of Bahong, La Trinidad who undergoes dialysis treatment three times a week.–


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