BENCHWARMER
Ramon
S. Dacawi
(Written six years ago, this piece is
revisited after we met Rhoda early evening last week and she told us she had
just buried her husband, Benjamin, one of the miner-heroes who figured in the
rainy days of rescue work at the Nevada Hotel that crumpled in the
July 16, 1990 killer quake.-RD)
When it rains, Rhoda
Boquiren comes to mind.
She’s that 43-year
old mother of five moving up and down Session Road. When she’s lucky enough,
you see her pulling a plastic bag almost empty or half-empty of recyclables on
one hand and Benjamin Jr., her youngest who was six then, on the other
hand.
Like Metro-Manilans
picking up the pieces in the wake of the flooding, she should be cursing the
rain. She can’t sell wet cartons and paper that shop owners leave on the main
street for the garbage truck to haul.
It seems, too, she
rues, that everybody now also segregates recyclables or collects what’s already
segregated. She remembers that time a woman with a car competing with
her. When she asked, the woman told her she, too, had mouths to feed.
The upside is that
rain, if not too strong, does wonders to her sayote plant. The shoots and
tendrils grow fast and soon get blanched or – for better taste – get sautéed if
there’s lard to come by. With rain, her kids can eat and won’t have to fetch
water for a while.
So, plus or minus,
what the rain brings depends on who and where you are. Rhoda’s family of seven
huddles in a shanty deep into Purok 5, Sto. Rosario, not quite in danger
of getting flooded. The downside is it’s far from the road. Benjamin Jr. often
complains he has to walk and walk, as he does again with his mother
up and down Session Rd.
Rhoda can’t carry him
always. With a tiny, frail and asthmatic frame, she coughs often. Her doctor
also advised her to be on maintenance dose to prevent osteoporosis (or is it
scoliosis?) from getting worse.
The last time Rhoda
herself was cuddled as a child was when she was 12. That was when she, the
ninth of 12 children of a coconut farm worker in Catubig, Samar, decided
to board a ship to find her fortune in Manila. A neighbor also bound for the
big city cuddled her like her own child on the ship deck, as the kid had no
ticket.
“I thought then life
was kind in Manila, the big city” she said in Tagalog.
She worked as
domestic for a family in Bicutan, Rizal. She couldn’t cope and so asked her
sister Celia, who lived nearby, to take her in. At 17 she agreed to work in a
printing press in Malabon. She told her employer not to pay her , just to
provide her food, a place to stay and support for her education.
Given more work than
study hours, she quit both at the end of her second year in high school. She
decided to come up to Baguio, again to work as a domestic.
In the wake of the
July 16, 1990 killer quake that hit Baguio, Rhoda found refuge in an evacuation
center near the city slaughterhouse. There, she met Benjamin, a miner who was
sidelined due to work-related injuries, yet still volunteered in the
rescue operations for victims trapped in the collapsed Nevada Hotel here.
Four years ago, Rhoda
unwrapped Benjamin’s bronze plaque credential in volunteerism.
“In recognition
of service above and beyond the call of duty in rescue of victims of the July
16, 1990 earthquake,” the inscription read.
It was presented by
Benguet Corp, on September 28 that year, signed by Alfonso Yuchengco, chairman
of the board, and Dennis Bemonte, president.
Rhoda remembers
Benjamin was among those who rescued Sonia Roco, wife of then Senator Raul
Roco. The temblor struck while Sonia was attending a conference sponsored by
the United States Agency for International Development at the Nevada Hotel.
To raise a family,
Benjamin Sr. tried to do odd jobs on-and-off, as his old injuries prevented
full-time work. When he could find some materials, he would improve their
shanty, which they built with support from a nun. It bears no number, and
stands on a lot owned by somebody else.
The patchwork of GI
sheets, canvas and scrap without electricity or plumbing is home to
their five children – Rejie, 23; Sharmaine, 22; Sunshine, 19; Benzon 17,
and Benjamin Jr.
The couple had tried
opening a mico-mini store with a P5,000 livelihood loan from the city social
welfare and development office. It was promising at first, until customers
became familiar to be refused credit. Rhoda’s consolation was having
repaid the loan.
Seven years back, an
Ibaloi woman raising her own daughter in Kentucky got wind of Rhoda’s plight.
She included Rhoda in several anonymous fund support to the needy here. Part of
it went to the family’s daily sustenance, the bulk for Rhoda work on
in a door-to-door vending of fish and vegetables.
The family’s needs,
however, were too much bear – including her and the children’s medications.
The would-be livelihood capital was re-channeled to addressing them. .
When the weather
permits, Rhoda will be back, especially in the afternoon, spotting bags
of trash to rummage up and down Session Rd. Benjamin has outgrown his tantrums,
when he would seat on the pavement and wail when he’s had enough of
walking.
(P.S.: A few
years back, in the wake of the devastation wrought by a typhoon, Benjamin did
major repairs on the family home, thanks to fund support from siblings Sunshine
and Paolo Paclayan-Balanza who mounted a fund drive in their church in Midland,
Michigan for victims of the howler.)
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