BENCHWARMER
Ramon
Dacawi
(This piece
found print several years ago.--RD)
When
it rains, Rhoda Boquiren comes to mind.
She’s
that 37-year old mother of five moving up and down Session Road. When she’s
lucky enough, you see her pulling a plastic bag almost empty or half-full of
recyclables on one hand and Benjamin Jr., her youngest at six, on the other.
Like
Metro-Manilans picking up the pieces in the wake of the flooding, she should be
cursing the rain. She can’t sell cartons and paper that shop owners leave for
the rains to drench on the main street.
It
seems, too, she rues, that everybody now also segregates recyclables or
collects what’s already segregated. Two years ago, she remembered a woman with
a car competing with her. When she asked, the woman, who was then working in an
international company, told her she, too, had mouths to feed.
The
upside is that rain, if not too strong, does wonders to her sayote plant. The
shoots and tendrils grow fast and soon get blanched or – for better taste – get
sautéed if there’s lard to come by. With rain, her kids can eat and won’t have
to fetch water for a while.
So,
plus or minus, what the rain brings depends on who and where you are.
Rhoda’s
family of seven huddles in a shanty deep into Purok 5, Sto. Rosario
, not quite in danger of getting flooded. The downside is it’s far from the
road. Benjamin Jr. often complains why he has to walk and walk – often up
and down Session Rd.
Rhoda
can’t carry him always. With a tiny, frail and asthmatic frame, she coughs
often. Her doctor had told her to be on maintenance dose to prevent
osteoporosis (or is it scoliosis?) from getting worse.
The last
time Rhoda herself was cuddled was when she was 12. The ninth of 12
children of a coconut farm worker in Catubig, Samar, she was then on board a
ship, on her way to find her fortune in Manila . As she had no ticket, a
neighbor also bound for the big city cuddled her like her own child,
sparing er from paying the fare.
“I
thought then life was kind in Manila ,” she said in Tagalog.
She
worked as domestic for a family in Bicutan, Rizal. She couldn’t cope and so
asked her sister Celia, who lived nearby, to take her in. At 17 she agreed to
work in a printing press in Malabon. She told her employer not to pay her ,
just to provide her food, a place to stay and support for her
education.
Given more
work than study hours, she quit both at the end of her sophomore year in high
school. She decided to come up to Baguio , again to work as a domestic.
In the wake
of the July 16, 1990 earthquake that hit Baguio , Rhoda found refuge in an
evacuation center near the city slaughterhouse. There, she met Benjamin, a
miner who was sidelined due to work-related injuries, but still volunteered in
the rescue operations for victims trapped in the collapsed Nevada Hotel days
afer the quake.
Years after
the quake, Rhoda unwrapped Benjamin’s bronze plaque credential in
volunteerism. “In recognition of service above and beyond the
call of duty in rescue of victims of the July 16, 1990 earthquake,” the
inscription read.
It
was presented by Benguet Corp, on September 28 that year, signed by Alfonso
Yuchengco, chairman of the board, and Dennis Belmonte, president.
Rhoda
remembers Benjamin was among those who rescued Sonia Roco, wife of then Senator
Raul Roco. The temblor struck while Sonia was attending a conference sponsored
by the United States Agency for International Development at the Nevada Hotel.
Benjamin
Sr. was on-and-off at odd jobs, as his old injuries prevent full-time work. If
he could find some materials, he could improve their shanty, which they
built with support from a nun. It bears no number, and stands on a lot owned by
somebody else. Two years ago, he succumbed to illness, leaving behind
Rhoda to raise the kids.
The
patchwork of GI sheets, canvas and scrap without electricity or
plumbing is home to their five children – Rejie, 20 and
out of school; Sharmaine, 19, Sunshine, 17, Benzon 15, and Benjamin Jr. On
rainless nights, the kids sometimes go to a neighbor’s house to watch TV.
The couple
had tried opening a micro-mini store with a P5,000 livelihood loan from the
city social welfare and development office. It was promising at first, until
customers became familiar to be refused credit. Rhoda’s consolation
was having repaid the loan.
Six years
back, an Ibaloi woman raising her own daughter in Kentucky got wind of Rhoda’s
plight. She included Rhoda in several anonymous fund support to the needy here.
Part of it went to the family’s daily sustenance, the bulk for Rhoda
to work on in a door-to-door vending of fish and vegetables.
The
family’s needs, however, were still too much to bear, including her and the
children’s medications against weather induced illness. The would-be
livelihood capital was re-channeled to addressing these.
Each time
the weather permits, Rhoda is back along Session Road, spotting bags of trash
to rummage. Or at city hall where employees hand her their empty plastic
bottles. Passersby can identify her through Benjamin Jr., who sits
on the pavement and wails at times when he’s had enough of walking.
***
(P.S. –
Thanks to a fund support raised by siblings Sunshine and Paulo
Paclayan-Balanza, from fellow church-goers in Michigan, Rhoda and
Benjamin eventually improved the family abode. Thanks to support from
Shoshin Kinderhilfe, the humanitarian foundation former world karate champion
Julian Chees established in southern Germany, Sharmaine, now a
student at the King’s College in La Trinidad, Benguet, was able to take her class
examinations. (email:mondaxbench@yahoo.com for
comments).
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