Resting Emmett
>> Thursday, September 18, 2014
BENCHWARMER
Ramon
Dacawi
(This is the second of a three-part tribute to teacher Emmett Brown Asuncion, director of the University of Baguio Science High, written after he reported to the great classroom in the sky early evening of September 2, 2009.)
Wakes and funerals are
also for the living, as much as they are for those being mourned and buried.
Elaborate or simple, the final rites help
those left behind cope with grief. So it was Monday, at the funeral of Erano
“Ka Erdy” Manalo, the esteemed executive minister of the Iglesiani Cristo. As it
was during the vigil and funeral for President Corazon Aquino when
crowds, estimated at two million, stood and waited, some for days and in
the heat and rain, hoping for a glimpse, or be consoled just being near.
Here, alumni of the
University of Baguio Science High continue to grapple with personal and
collective loss, since news spread that angels descended on the hospital bed of
Emmett Brown Asuncion evening of Sept. 2. They mourn for one who hammered into
them Latin declension and English grammar, how to stage plays, cheer, sing for
the Christmas cantata and whatever he felt they needed to know and learn.
Defying conventional
rules of teaching, Emmett established and enriched traditions of learning and
rites of passage unique to Science High. His legacy took time to be fully
grasped and appreciated, veiled then by his scolding and – as those who passed
through him said so during the wake - tantrums over a simple mistake, singing
out of key or beat, a moment of inattention, lack of focus or any infraction of
Emmett’s Rules of Order.
They recalled the
brilliance, rare passion and unusual sacrifice with which he molded and
prepared them for the world out there, where many have now established their
places in the sun. How they wished they were home for the rites rather than pay
tribute and try to pick up the pieces through Facebook.
As it wasn’t Advent,
those who made it back skipped “Roratecoelidesuper…”, that opening hymn for the
Christmas cantatas.of yesteryears. They took comfort in other lyrics -
“To Sir, With Love” and Yvonne Elliman’s “I Don’t Know How to Love Him” .
Batch 2010 came in gray, white and red to render “Home, Sweet Home”, passed on
to them by JV Cawis (Class ’02) and others who took on Emmett’s calling.
To help them cope,
Matimyas Bautista (Batch ’94) set up big a white board in front of Funeraria
Paz’s Chapel C, for them to write “What I learned from Sir Emmett”. To
reiterate the instruction, one scribbled the school motto: “Verbum sat
sapienti”( One word is enough for the wise).
Dazed over their
common loss, they initially wrote expressions of gratitude, about Emmett
being their father and grandfather, one who will be dearly loved and always
fondly missed. (I was gripped with fear –and hope – that Emmett would rise from
the white and blue casket to remind them about the simple instruction.) Some of
the lessons learned began appearing on the board on the fourth night, together
with quotes he used to repeat, like “Am I making sense?”
“He was the
first to really appreciate “Bohemian Rhapsody’ as an English phrase,” Batch ’84
somehow summed it up.
They posted on
tarpaulin Emmett’s farewell letter to them - his children. It speaks of
darkness finally fading, the laughter of the past bursting forth in the open
sky, and, “Then across the darkness, I salute the Dawn”.
Joel Aliping (’82)
worried he’d again find Nestor Gatchalon, Emmett’s neighbor and friend, by his
lonesome vigil until dawn. So on the third night, Joel and three others
returned with candles to check in the wee hours. They shut off the lights and
then lit a candle that ignited others, like in in those Christmas cantatas
Emmett used to direct, this time in silence. Joel then asked them to put
off the candlelights and, in the silent darkness, reflect on who Emmett
was and is to them.
They were unsure on
where the necrological rites should be, with many insisting it should be at the
University of Baguio. They then decided to have it right where they were,
with the proceedings beamed on a screen in the adjoining Chapel D
the funeral parlor offered for the spill-over. After all, over here is
over there, and over there is over here.
Beaulah (Zeny) Badua
(’70) said Emmett could have gone much earlier for three times during those
seven months she and Liza, Nestor’s wife, stood by his hospital bedside A
trained medical technologist who turned to Christian ministry, she knew it was
almost time when his blood pressure fluctuated frequently on Sept. 1, Baguio’s
founding centennial.
Emmett was then seeing
movements through the window of Room 337 of the Baguio General Hospital.
Beaulah gripped her teacher’s hand and asked if he was seeing
angels. Emmett, too weak to speak, answered with a guttural – yes. He
passed on peacefully early evening of Sept. 2. . After mass, Pastor John Fianza
(’80), opened the ecumenical service. Pastor Raul Fernandez, brother of June
(’88) and Leandro (’93) delivered the message - about Emmett’s encounter with
and deliverance to the Almighty. The Fernandez home was Emmett’s home after he
retired some eight years ago. He was their second father.
They found comfort
from Reinaldo Bautista Sr., the former university president who co-founded
their special school. KuyaRhey recalled how the idea of drawing the top
elementary school graduates took form in 1963, when the first Star Science
Section opened to compose Batch ’67. The best teachers, among them
Emmett, Ernesto and AdelinaAlcantara, Mr. and Mrs. Jaime Castro,
were tapped to mold the young scholars.
City mayor Reinaldo
Bautista Jr., and his wife Joy, both of Class ’85, came to pay their respects,
lifting their spirits. So did Dr.Virgilio and Mrs. Lilia Bautista, whose
11 children, including Matimyas, were among those Emmett molded. So did those
who transferred to other high schools come to pay tribute. They, too, are
family of equal status. In Emmett’s death, they were introduced to his two
surviving siblings, Sister Anicia and
Sister Julia, both
Catholic nuns. Another sister, Sr. Cecilia Agnes, passed on years back.
Sr. Anicia said they were overwhelmed by the outpouring of love for Emmett, he
who wanted to be a priest but ended up delivering sermons to his
students.
Corinthia Naz (’75),
one of five siblings who graduated from UBSH, prayed for fine weather
during funeral on a Monday. But the morning sky didn’t clear up and
rain started falling as the cortege passed the Naguilian Rd. checkpoint. Those
who walked kept on, among them Jorge Borja, who had served as their scout
leader, and other teachers.
The disc player inside
the funeral car spun five pieces (starting with Secret Garden’s “You Raise Me
Up”) throughout the over a kilometer procession. Fog crept in from the west as
the cortege descended on the Baguio Memorial Park below the public cemetery.
Pastor Fianza offered
the final prayer before Class 2010 encored with “Home, Sweet Home”. Pall
bearers representative of the years then lifted the casket to the newly dug
grave. At 25 past noon, Emmett’s casket was lowered near familiar company. A
grave separated him and Baguio newsman Willy Cacdac, his friend and fellow
coach in oration who passed on three years earlier, during a sunburst in July.
They released balloons
and then the lyrics of the school loyalty song wafted in the air. The balloons
billowed to the east as they rose. Above the memorial park is a row of pines,
standing like sentinels over the grave now fully covered with flowers.
Then it poured again,
as in “rorate coelide super et nubes pluant justum” – “.Drop down dew, ye heavens,
from above, and let the clouds rain the just”. Or “Heavens, open from above,
and from the clouds rain down the Just One.” (email:mondaxbench@yahoo.com for
comments).
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