Trees for the mourning
>> Tuesday, June 24, 2014
BENCHWARMER
Ramon S.
Dacawi
Final rites are
also for the living as well as for those we mourn. The words, the eulogies and
the funeral help ease the grief of those in mourning and the unease of those
who console. Being there can be of great help, as it was last week when the
family of retired police officer Policarpio Cambod lost his son Lennon. As it
was 24 years ago next month, when neighbors, relatives and strangers were
there to do what had to be done in the wake of the killer earthquake that hit
Northern Luzon.
The sense of community triggered or awakened by tragedy brought back that
favorite quote of Baguio boy and feature writer Freddie Mayo: “There are places
in the heart which do not exist, into which suffering enters to give them
existence.”
At the crumpled Nevada Hotel 24 years ago next month, restless rescuers
could only curse in silence over the helplessness of it all. A dying victim,
pinned by tons of concrete, was pinpointed by a roving flashlight that stopped
on a pair of protruding and barely moving pair of shoes. For the rescuers, it
was hell to be there, and to have to remember having clawed into the landslide
debris with bare hands, shouting to the winds and rains for the after-shocks to
stop.
There were survivors at the Nevada Hotel. Among them was Sonia Roco, the
wife of former senator and then Education Secretary Raul Roco. She was
attending a conference when the killer quake, at intensity 7.8 – struck. She
was entombed between two beams and was pulled out only after two days.
Willy Cacdac, Toots Soberano and I barely had rest covering the rescue
operations since the templor struck. I was dozing off when she was rescued. It
must have been the joyous clapping and the wailing of the ambulance siren that
woke me up. By then, she was on the way to the hospital, after her rescue
by miners and cadets of the Philippine Military Academy.
After bringing his wife to the hospital, Senator Roco returned to
continue work with the other rescuers. We didn’t want to sound intrusive but
still asked him what his wife told him on the way to the hospital.
“She said ‘God must love me so much I’m still alive’,” he quoted.
Towards the seventh anniversary of the quake, the then city council
thought of unveiling a stone marker in remembrance of those who perished in the
disaster. The aldermen, however, were unsure of where it should be installed.
One argued it should be placed at the Burnham Park. Another struck down the
plan, saying it would give a morbid ambience to the city’s main park. Another
suggested that it be placed inside the city’s public cemetery. Others
objected, saying no one would be there to read the text, thereby defeating the
purpose.
We are sometimes in limbo, unsure of how to console or remember. I read
about one who coped by going to a wake with a shoeshine box set. He then
polished all the grieving family’s boots and shoes and laid them on the rack,
ready for them to wear for the funeral rites.
So forget the cold stone marker, advised Baguio journalist Jose “Peppot”
Ilagan, then the editor of the Gold Ore, Baguio’s alternative weekly that had
since folded up. It would be best, he argued, to remember those who
perished by planting pine trees as living memorials.
So on the seventh year after the quake, Baguio media began an annual
tradition of planting seedlings inside Busol Watershed, the city’s
remaining water source, in honor of the calamity victims. Later, each
time a colleague reports to the great newsroom in the sky, they would mark the
transition by helping his or her family plant a memorial sapling in another
secluded portion of the forest. That tradition, also suggested by Peppot, has
helped them cope with loss.
The memorial trees, including those of Willy, Freddie and Peppot,
continue to grow. (e-mail: mondaxbench@yahoo.com for comments.)
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